Let Them Heal …

When someone chooses not to resolve things like or in the time period you wish, do not press them. No one is to say the healing process that that person needs to be an asset to that relationship. You don’t know how that actually affected that person and to what depth is the relationship broken to them. Should we draw things out loger? No. But the pain they feel is very real to them and needs healing. Maybe you should have told the violator not to harm while your telling the victim to open themselves and take on more harm. God has given us feelings as indicators to guard ourselves. Allow them the God given right and choice to protect themselves. Take as long as you need to heal with a clean heart. The negative interaction too soon will do more damage, dump salt on a wound, and contaminates your spirit. Don’t trash your heart because others don’t care about your healing. To you that do the cohersing to conform, it’s only to save face not relationships … Let Them Heal …

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