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Never Get Robbed

I received news this morning that I was going to receive what was owed to me. Not only was I thankful that the dam had been broken and the overflow was coming, I was also thankful that over the years I had not allowed this situation to in any way steal my joy. Many times this situation came aggressively and purposefully to steal my joy, to oppress and depress.  But remember that no weapon formed against me shall prosper when […]

Do The Right Thing

Today it’s simple … Always do the right thing with the right heart … A little bit ago someone tried to GET me. They tried to bring misfortune to my house. Instead of going back and forth, tit for tat, I decided that this was the fire to get my ducks in a row. So while I’m excited about moving beyond in a way that that situation couldn’t touch me, the Most High was doing His thing. Come to find […]

The Teacher Within

My motherhood is a vert precious thing to me.  It is always a reminder of God’s grace DESPITE …  Trying to pull it all together, learning as I go, loving all the way, and keeping the right heart.  It reminds me God can do and teach us anything we don’t know if you want to know.  Even if you don’t have an example … the Teacher is in you and near you … Seek after knowledge and apply …

Roses

This morning I was thinking about how I wanted to send 12 dozen roses to my ex and thank him for bringing me down to $0 and homeless. Looking at where I’ve been in relation to where I’m going, is surreal! (And yes you can call me “Fithy”) It’s been a pushing time, a pressing time, a crying time, a determined time, a triumphant time. If I was not in that situation I would not have strived and achieved anything […]

Windows Of Heaven

I love it when the Windows of Heaven are open for me and mine! Sometimes your hardship is a set up to show you what (& WHO) you may not pay attention to when the Window is open, Baby! See God knows I will get complacent and disengaged with that over there. But I WILL attend to it … and the Window will STILL open!! Not even THAT can stop or block Ms. Nikole!! Cuz don’t no monkey stop no […]

Be Better Than Before

Everything that is planted today will harvest in next years. Everything that was planted in the last 4 years is harvesting right now … in our lives. Many people go through life existing and not planting. So they don’t really see any difference because there was no new harvest. Sometimes it actually becomes worse because there is no new harvest and the ground is being stripped of the nutrients that carry from year to year. Get a goal and plant […]

My Legacy

Sometimes you have to write a vision and make plain of what your real goals are … what are you trying to emulate to the world. Some don’t even realize they are leaving a legacy … of abuse, brokenness, defeat, failed spirituality, impoverished thinking, lack, no recovery, victimization, unhealthy homes, poor parenting and leadership… While I do believe that my message will reach national exposure, I am sure to plant my seeds, first, at home, in surrounding areas then to […]

No Place To Grow

In the last 4 years I have learned a lot about me.  New and hidden passions and talents have blossomed.  It’s not just I didn’t know my own strength but I didn’t even know what I liked or really needed (dealing with controlling people will do that).  After talking with a friend I realized that even musically the place we were, allowed us no room to grow.  My vocal ability was stronger then but we had no place to grow.  […]

Believe Not … BELIEVE!

I am convinced that abusive, controlling people and manipulative people love to see us squirm. The whole essence of this drive is a drive for Power Over. Many times even as you watch them with others, they love to get over or win people. It makes sense when you think of their nature. But many times we want to believe that, for us, they are not like that. But because we are the most easily and accessible to be controlled […]

When My Abuser Is Nice …

I just need to interrupt this music break after reading a few things … Every abuser is on his best behavior when there is a 3rd party involved or when he wants get back in place with the original program. This way the third party will verify that the abuser is a perfect gentleman and your crazy. Of course, he doesn’t want you to go, THEN WHO WOULD HE HAVE TO CONTROL & MAKE HIM FEEL MORE POWERFUL? Umm … […]